Monday, November 5, 2012

A Month of Thankfulness

Thanksgiving is my FAVORITE holiday. It is a time for family and EATING with NO guilt!! I love everything about it! I love the colors of fall, the chill and smell in the air. Normally we spend Thanksgiving with my Mom's side of the family, but this year I am going to do our own. Rob has been gone for almost 10 weeks and I want to have special time with him and our girls before he travels back to Texas in December. I can't wait to buy my turkey, and start planning all of my sides and desserts! :-)


I am researching things about the first Thanksgiving to see what I can add to our celebration to make it educational too. I found this on Wikipedia so far and have more to find. 

In the United States

The First Thanksgiving at Plymouth By Jennie A. Brownscombe (1914)
In the United States, the modern Thanksgiving holiday tradition is commonly traced to a 1621 celebration at Plymouth in present-day Massachusetts. The 1621 Plymouth feast and thanksgiving was prompted by a good harvest. In later years, the tradition was continued by civil leaders such as Governor Bradford who planned a thanksgiving celebration and fast in 1623.[9][10][11] The practice of holding an annual harvest festival like this did not become a regular affair in New England until the late 1660s.[12]
Pilgrims and Puritans who began emigrating from England in the 1620s and 1630s carried the tradition of Days of Fasting and Days of Thanksgiving with them to New England. Several days of Thanksgiving were held in early New England history that have been identified as the "First Thanksgiving", including Pilgrim holidays in Plymouth in 1621 and 1623, and a Puritan holiday in Boston in 1631.[13][14]
Thanksgiving proclamations were made mostly by church leaders in New England up until 1682, and then by both state and church leaders until after the American Revolution. During the revolutionary period, political influences affected the issuance of Thanksgiving proclamations. Various proclamations were made by royal governors, John Hancock, General George Washington, and the Continental Congress, each giving thanks to God for events favorable to their causes.[15] As President of the United States, George Washington proclaimed the first nation-wide thanksgiving celebration in America marking November 26, 1789, "as a day of public thanksgiving and prayer to be observed by acknowledging with grateful hearts the many and signal favours of Almighty God".[16]
According to historian Jeremy Bangs, director of the Leiden American Pilgrim Museum, the Pilgrims may have been influenced by watching the annual services of Thanksgiving for the relief of the siege of Leiden in 1574, while they were staying in Leiden.[17]
Every year, the President of the United States will “pardon” a turkey, which spares the bird's life and ensures that it will spend the duration of its life roaming freely on farmland.[18]

Debate about first celebrations

The traditional representation of where the first Thanksgiving was held in the United States, and even the Americas, has often been a subject of debate, though the debate is often confused by mixing up the ideas of a Thanksgiving holiday celebration and a Thanksgiving religious service. This debate has been called a "tempest in a beanpot" and "marvelous nonsense."[13] There is evidence for an earlier religious service by Spanish explorers in Texas at San Elizario in 1598, as well as thanksgiving feasts in the Virginia Colony.[19] The initial thanksgiving observance at Virginia in 1619 was prompted by the colonists' leaders on the anniversary of the settlement.[20] Author and teacher Robyn Gioia and Michael Gannon of the University of Florida have argued that the earliest attested "Thanksgiving" service in what is now the United States was celebrated by the Spanish on September 8, 1565, in what is now Saint Augustine, Florida.[21][22]
Thanksgiving services were routine in Virginia as early as 1607.[23] A day for Thanksgiving services was codified in the founding charter of Berkeley Hundred in Charles City County, Virginia in 1619.[24]

Since Rob is still in TX for the next 2 weeks I am going to start doing special crafts to use for decorations for our feast. I will be perusing PINTEREST for great ideas too. We will definitely have hand turkeys, and our own place mats. I want to do formal place settings just to make it special. I would love to find special table ware too. It may just be fancy paper plates, but it will be SPECIAL!! I know the most special thing will be being together as a family again! We have missed Rob like CRAZY! We cannot wait to wrap out arms around him and kiss his face!

The thing I love MOST is reflecting on everything God has done in the last year for our family. As I look back I see all of the blessings God  has given us. I am thankful every day of my life but there is something about the month of November that brings it all to a head. Every day  life tends to wear us down and we sometimes forget to be thankful, Thanksgiving usually reminds people to be THANKFUL and remember that things aren't as bad as it seems. Over the years it seems as though Thanksgiving has been lost to Halloween, and Christmas. It is time that we put an emphasis back on THANKSGIVING and to what it means to be thankful. God has been merciful to each and everyone of us. No matter what you have been through I am sure you can find at least one thing to be thankful for! Food, shelter, job? I challenge each of my friends to find something to be thankful for during this month of thankfulness! 



Friday, October 26, 2012

Sweet Opportunities

Yesterday the girls and I went to Sam's Club. After we were done they asked to go to the cemetery. After we visited the memorial site, I started to drive away when I saw an elderly couple with canes struggling to get back to their van. I stopped and jumped out to help. The elderly man asked me to help Mother because she had just a hand cane and he had the rolling type cane. They began telling me that they were visiting their daughter that passed away at 2 weeks old in 1944. He was stationed overseas fighting in WW2, and wasn't able to come home. That poor woman went through it alone, and it was their first child too. I helped "Mother" into her van, and she gave me a great big hug and told me thank you. They live in CA now, and their son flew them to his home in IL. He then told them to come to Indy so they could visit the grave site.

I didn't plan to go by the cemetery, but God wanted me to be there for that couple. I am so glad that I got to be helpful. I don't know their name, but I feel blessed that I got to meet and help them. NEVER pass up the opportunity to help someone else because you never know who you may meet!!

Tuesday, October 23, 2012

Memorial Service

On Sunday I attended a memorial service for the baby we lost in August. I was surrounded by other women who faced similar circumstances I had just been through. There were many tears shed for the loss of a baby that would never know the arms of their loving Mother. I got to thinking about where my unborn child is living now. My baby has seen the face of God, and is resting in the arms of Jesus! I am so thankful that I have the promise of heaven and KNOW for sure I will see my precious unborn children I never got to hold here on earth. My unborn children will NEVER know ANY pain or sorrow!!!! When I think of that I can rejoice and be so thankful!


Thank you Chuck Mower for the BEAUTIFUL arrangement for my precious baby! You are truly a blessing to me and Rob.


When I read this poem it went straight to my heart. From the moment I found out I was expecting these thoughts went through my head. When I saw the heartbeat and the movements on the first ultrasound my heart was in love. God saw fit to call my baby home before it was even born. I can't wait to see the faces of the ones I never got to meet. I love you my unborn children!! (May 1998, August 2012)

Friday, October 12, 2012

Peaceful Morning

I love the mornings when my kiddos stay asleep after I get up! Today is a RARE treat! My older 5 spent the night with cousins last night so I only have Princess P and the little boy I babysit. They are both SOUNDLY sleeping right now and I am getting some quiet time. I have been up since 6:15 and did my workout. Now I am catching up on my shows from this week. As I am sitting here random things keep going through my mind! 

So much has happened in the last month and God has been with me each step of the way!  I am thankful for His wonderful mercy and grace on my life. I do not always understand what is going on but I trust Him each step of the way. His ways are so much better than mine. As we walk through life we get to make choices of our own. I do not always make the best choice for me, and sometimes I suffer for the choice I make. If I choose to eat candy all day and nothing else my body is going to be sick. The same applies to my Spiritual life. If I choose not to read my Bible, pray, and attend church my Spirit is going to be sick. I am so thankful that I am not a robot and I can make choices. I choose to walk with God and trust Him! Without Him I would be out of my mind with worry. There are times when I forget that God has it all figured out before I even know there is an issue and I worry and fret! Thankfully I am usually quickly reminded that I serve an AWESOME God and He NEVER leaves me. So thankful that His promises are true!

Last night I was introduced to Shaklee cleaning supplies! I had heard about them from a friend when the flu bug ran through our house a couple of years ago, and I used the sample she sent me to get rid of the germs. I never looked into buying them for my home though. The cleaning products are totally green and a LITTLE BIT goes a LONG, LONG way!! I can't wait to order and really put it to work. I am looking forward to getting rid of the HARSH chemicals in my home and using something that is better for all of us. They offer other products as well, but I am mostly interested in the cleaning products at this time. You will be seeing a review after I use them for a couple of weeks. 

I told you my thoughts have been random! It is the weekend and I am excited to have down time tomorrow! Tonight I am getting new mattresses for the girls bunk beds so I hope they will be able to sleep better at night! I will NEVER EVER EVER buy bunky board mattresses AGAIN!! They are literally a slat of wood with 2 inches of foam on them. They are HORRIBLE!! I am thankful that we were given money to get them new ones! Sam's Club has the BEST deal in town too for a name brand mattress! I highly recommend a Sam's membership! Rob and I always renew ours at tax time. It seriously pays for itself with the deals you can find!! I am saving about $50 per mattress. 


Wednesday, October 10, 2012

Praise God from Whom ALL Blessings Flow

I am so excited to give the final report of  Mom! All test have been done, and EVERYONE of them show NO cancer!! She does have a fracture in her femur and will follow up with the bone specialist in a month with another x-ray to check its progress! I am so thankful to all of my friends that have prayed for her and my family during this time! God is ALWAYS good, and even if we got the news of cancer we would have trusted Him for the answers we needed!

Life continues to roll on in the Kennedy home and we are in the process of planning fall activities. I want to hit the apple orchard so we can make homemade goodies, and I REALLY want to take the girls to Brown County too. Fall is my favorite time of year and I need to get the girls out and take pictures. I know I will get good ones when we go to the orchard and Brown County!

I have been painting in my bedroom and master bathroom. I love how it is looking and the freshness that paint brings to a room! My living room/ dining room is next on the painting agenda! I am putting my own style to this house and it is so wonderful!! I have always dreamed of redecorating my own home and it is happening. I am thankful that my husband just lets me do what I want (within reason) in our home. I am ready to pull up the carpet in my living/dining room, but am afraid to just in case the wood beneath is a mess!  I am going to price area rugs before I pull it up so I know I have an option if it is nasty!

Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Still Waiting for Answers

It is easier to update on Mom this way because there is so much to say! Last Friday she went and had a Mammogram and PET scan. Yesterday her doctor told her she was clear except for her leg. He ordered a MRI for early this morning. His nurse called to tell her he wants her to go and see another Doctor on Friday, have another Mammogram and then go back to him next week. We know for SURE that something IS going on, but are still unsure of what it is. He was not comfortable giving her the all clear in her breast yet and that is why she is doing another Mammogram. Our family asks that you continue to pray for us as we walk through this together.

I am so thankful that I was able to go to Ladies Retreat over the weekend because God KNEW what was going to be happening in my life. The theme was The Other Side of the Storm. Our family is in the midst of the storm, but God knows what is on the other side and He is going to walk with us each step of the way. My God will continue to be my rock and I will trust in Him. Right now the clouds are thick and hard to see through but I know the answers are near and He NEVER changes. I can thank Him today for tomorrow because God is ALWAYS good to me even in the storms!

The song below has been on my heart for a few days. I used to sing this with my friend and her parents as a teen. The message is so strong in this song. No matter what happens GOD will roll me over the tide!

       HE'LL ROLL ME OVER THE TIDE

                      I

WHEN OLD STEVEN WAS ACCUSED, LONELY AND BEWILDERED
NO ONE THAT DAY WOULD STAND BY HIS SIDE.
SO HE JUST LOOKED INTO THE HEAVENS
AND HE SAW THE FACE OF JESUS.
AND IT ROLLED HIM OVER THE TIDE.

                      II

NOW WHEN THE WORLD IS CLOSING IN AND LIFE BECOMES A BURDEN.
I WANT TO RUN, BUT THERE'S NO PLACE TO HIDE.
SO I JUST LOOK LIKE OLD STEVEN TO THE RIGHT HAND
OF MY FATHER AND HE'LL ROLL ME OVER THE TIDE.

                  CHORUS

AND I NEVER SAID A PRAYER THAT HE COULDN'T ANSWER
AND I NEVER SHED A TEAR THAT HE COULD NOT DRY.
NOW WHEN THE WAVES OF LIFE ARE SO HIGH THAT YOU CAN'T

MOUNT THEM I KNOW HE'LL ROLL ME OVER THE TIDE.





Wednesday, September 26, 2012

God's Ways are Best

Rob has been in Texas for almost a month and I MISS him like CRAZY!! This month has been like an ETERNITY to me and the girls! Not quite sure when he gets to come home yet, but I know it isn't real soon.  A lot has happened since he left. Sick kids, dead battery, and other things too. Nothing to life shattering! Normal day to day things until yesterday :-)

Yesterday my Mom went to see her Cancer Doc due to pain she has had in her arm. Blood work came back great, BUT they found a lump in her breast. On Friday she is going to be having a mammogram and PET scan. These tests will help us to know what they are looking at. The doctor is pretty sure she has breast cancer due to the lump and the pain. My heart dropped when she told me and my mind went back 7&1/2 years ago when we found out about her Lymphoma in her leg. My Mom means the world to me and I don't want to watch her go through this again. I don't like that she is in pain and facing this again. Yes, I am selfish and want to bury my head in the sand, BUT I am so THANKFUL that I know the Master Healer and I can trust Him no matter what we find out. God is good no matter the outcome. His ways are best even in hearing the scary words Cancer has returned! I don't understand why this is happening and I know it is not for me to understand. I am ever thankful for a mother that trusts the Lord even in stormy weather. I am most thankful that God gave her a wonderful, loving husband 5 years ago. She is not going to face this trial alone on this earth. God gave her Gary and I know he will be with her every step of the way.

Please pray for our family as we face this scary time together. I am reminded of the song "Tis so Sweet to Trust in Jesus." I pray this will be my song through this trial for I know when I trust in Jesus ALL fears cease, and I know He will see me through the entire trial! God is so good to me!

"'Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus"
’Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus,
Just to take Him at His Word;
Just to rest upon His promise,
And to know, “Thus says the Lord!”

Refrain
Jesus, Jesus, how I trust Him!
How I’ve proved Him o’er and o’er
Jesus, Jesus, precious Jesus!
O for grace to trust Him more!

O how sweet to trust in Jesus,
Just to trust His cleansing blood;
And in simple faith to plunge me
’Neath the healing, cleansing flood!

Refrain
Yes, ’tis sweet to trust in Jesus,
Just from sin and self to cease;
Just from Jesus simply taking
Life and rest, and joy and peace.

Refrain
I’m so glad I learned to trust Thee,
Precious Jesus, Savior, Friend;
And I know that Thou art with me,
Wilt be with me to the end.